Monday Moments - Sometimes, it's just a cat.


August 6th, 2026

Prime Time Journey

Hi, Reader,

The other night, I woke up to the unmistakable sound of four very unhappy chickens.

If you've ever had chickens, you know the sound. It's loud enough to send you flying out of bed, wondering what predator has found its way into the coop.

We've had chickens for over twenty years (at one time, we had over 30 but we've downsized considerably). Over that time we've dealt with coyotes, raccoons, owls, hawks, and a few other uninvited visitors. More than once, we've found ourselves outside in the middle of the night, pajamas and all, armed with various weapons, chasing something away.

This time?

It was just the neighbor's cat.

The chickens didn't stop to evaluate the situation. They simply reacted.

After we got them settled down, and I climbed back into bed, I couldn't help but wonder how often I do the same thing.

Sometimes an unexpected email, a difficult conversation, or a new opportunity can stir up old fears. Before I know it, my mind is racing and my heart is sounding the alarm.

But is it really today's problem?

Or is it yesterday's experience teaching me to expect the worst?

I'm learning that not every rustle in the bushes deserves the same response.

Sometimes there is a real threat that needs our attention.

And sometimes...it's just a cat.

As you begin this new week, perhaps it's worth asking yourself:

Is there something that's been keeping you on edge that might deserve a second look?

Maybe you'll discover that what feels overwhelming isn't nearly as frightening as you first imagined.

I hope your week brings you moments of peace, a little courage, and the wisdom to know the difference.

A Moment to Reflect

What "cat" have you been treating like a coyote?

XoXo,

Shelley

PS Now that my Kickstarter campaign was successful, I've ordered my planners from the printer! And now if you decide you'd like to purchase one, you can order them on my new website - Her Best Years Press. The planner is available for pre-order and I'll also be adding planner stickers and other sweet stickers that you can add to your water bottle, laptop or anywhere that needs something cute!











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